People love asking women what they do for work. Sometimes they ask out of curiosity.Sometimes judgment.Sometimes desire.Sometimes because they’re trying to figure out how much access to you costs. “Ask Me About My Rates” started as a joke—but like most good jokes, there’s truth underneath it. Rates can mean a lot of things. A dancer’s rate.An escort’s rate.A creative fee.A consultation.A day rate.A booking fee.An emotional rate.The price of your time.The cost of your labor.What it takes to get access to your body, your creativity, your attention, your expertise. For...
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